Former sex workers have come out and revealed some interesting details about what men pay for when they visit escorts or prostitutes. One of them who has slept with over 9000 men have answered most of the questions that men ask while in the act, what they expect and what they pay for.
She says that most men don’t go for the messed up kinky services. The majority of men asked her to make them feel needed, and that’s what excited them and satisfied them. Wanted by a sexually active woman is their ultimate fantasy is what she has said. She says it was very integral to make sure that you are enjoying whatever is going on and even if you are not, you need to pretend that you are.
Most of them have said that they are regular men who just want to have a good time, there is no need to outdo yourself since some of them are lonely it would be good if you make them feel like you are enjoying their company. Apparently, most men do not like exceptionally large breasts while in the act, and they prefer the feel of the real deal. They also prefer a lady who is beautiful without makeup and would choose natural beauty over fake painted on elegance and glamour.
You don’t have to be the hottest female with the gorgeous tight body even though many men do prefer that. As long as you shower before the act and you are well groomed, confident, comfortable in your skin, you’re good to go. If you are giving off a fun, energetic vibe, it really helps. One of the biggest myths is that men only prefer young women, but nope! That’s not the case. In many scenarios men just want men to want a genuine connection and also heart to heart conversations; they usually do not want to get it on with girls who are old enough to be their daughters.
Men apparently want a bit of mystery and would rather pay for something that someone their age don’t get to see all the time. It is also factual that most men that these sex-workers/escorts meet are usually broken, struggling financially, disheartened, missing someone dearly or lonely, so therefore it is essential that an escort should try and make them have a good time.
On the other hand, there are also men in their 30s-40s who are these driven, ‘career first’ types who do not have time to maintain a girlfriend or a boyfriend. These guys do tend to ask the escorts the ‘girlfriend’ experience. They are also a lot more energetic and will tend to have a list of requests that the sex worker will have to try and fulfill. Some things that you cannot do with a wife or girlfriend. Things like BDSM and other stuff that is a little dark. That is one of the leading reasons why men hire escorts and sex workers.